Life is nothing but vehicular traffic

Ever thought of life from this point of view? Well getting stuck in traffic has made me understand a new aspect of looking towards life.People compare life to many things,I compared it with vehicular traffic.

We see some cars just zoom by our car,some we leave behind.Life too is the same. Some one gets stuck in the traffic jam,while some go through smoothly.But what we should remember is that the traffic jam wont stay forever and would resolve eventually.Same is with life the hardships are bound to end someday.Sometimes it takes a long time sometimes its early.Sometimes there are no traffic jams,that is what we call smooth sailing.

We can even call our own lives as cars,if we take care of it properly the car is bound to perform well and vice versa.Its not always that we get the best car,but how to get best out of it is in our hands. Then too even if we have a good car at our hand there are going to be traffic signals where we have to stop, Some long some short. Again there will be punctures and technical glitches.

So just waiting and hoping the traffic jam in which i am clears out soon. Cheers :)

Walking the path................not knowing whats in store ahead

Many a times we think what would happen if I do this ,if I do that..... Never we do a thing all out of instinct. Maybe that is one thing that differentiates us from animals. But many a times I feel this thinking ability keeps us tied up in limits,which again we ourselves have developed for ourselves.
Many times think that how good it would be if we too could have taken decisions or done things just on basic instinct(No reference to the movie).Many times feel like if i wont have thought so much at that time I could have done that thing. But because i kept on thinking of the consequences I dint do the thing, and now the memories have come to haunt me,and tell me that i rather should have done that thing then and there. There are many things that have occurred in life or rather have not occurred in life due to this so called 'sensible thinking'!! Why do we need this sense,at least why in the things that don't need it,or the things which are better off without it?
Just crave a life or at least a few moments from life,where i could take decisions not after analyzing the situation,but only on instinct.

Miss you today....................

I miss you today
More than I usually do
I’m not sure why today is so different
I just really miss you
Your laugh
Your thoughts
Everything about you
Your scent
Your touch
I miss you so much
I’m at a crossroad in my life
I need your guidance
Your advice
I need you to tell me
It will be all right
I’m uncertain about tomorrow
In my heart
I feel great sorrow
How I wish
That I may borrow
Just one more day
With you

What is this...........................?

What are relations? Are they really what we think they are? Or are they the so called heavenly connections,as we are told in the movies? Like the things that happen just like that without even you knowing it happening.
Why is that you crave for just one moment with that one person,atleast once a day, no matter what you have to do for it. Let it be travelling right across the city, while not having a bike ,to just spend some time with that person? What is that?
You know there is something, but you yourself dont know what exactly it is, let alone that special person.What is it really? Right from the first time you saw that person there always is this different feeling when that person is around.
You could remember each and every thing you saw her doing ,right from just scratching her head to having an accident on her bike. You remember every moment you spent with her around. What is it?
I tried asking myself this question but was left unanswered so should i ask her what it really is? Or should I refrain?
But in the end the question still remains. What is it?

Learnings.............

I've learned...
People are wid you only when they need you,not otherwise....
I've learned...
Extra care of someone from you will ultimately bring a blame for you,not appreciation...
I've learned...
A simple lie of your close one can break you more than anything.....
I've learned...
Its hard to weep alone when there is no shoulder to support.....
Ultimately I've learned...
Help people but not beyond the point of your dignity.

Fight on...................

To start of ,some word are overheard somewhere.

Life is not all sunshine and rainbows.It is a very mean and nasty place,and it doesn't care how tough you are. It will beat you to your knees and keep you there permenantly if you let it.
You ,me or nobody, is gonna hit as hard as life.But its not about how hard you hit,its about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward.Thats how winning is done.
Now if you know what you are worth then go out and get your worth.But you gotto be willing to take the hits and not point fingers saying that you can't be what you want to be ,coz of him,her or anybody. Cowards do that and that isn't you.You are better than that.
Life is a gift,but until you start believing in yourself ,you dont have a life.

Worth of a Person

'How do you decide the worth of a person?' Never thought of this question until recently.When I asked myself this question that is when I realized that this question has very deep ramifications.Till date we had followed what others said,like ,'this person is not worth it' or 'that person is a worthy candidate'. But never really thought about this thing so deeply.

Frankly speaking, after giving this a thought ,it came to my conscience ,that who is a person to decide a person's worth? Either his/her own or for the matter of fact any other person's worth? Who are we to decide that? Who are we to say that I'm /You are not worth it? Or vice versa. Who gave us such great powers to decide a person's worth? 'NO ONE' . Then why have we so blindly followed other's words or made up our own minds ,both about self and others.

What answer I found from conscience is that ,Worth is a thing that is not decided ,it is a thing that has to be proved ,and not once but time and again. No one could bask in the glory of a thing he did some years ago(until and unless that thing had long duration repercussions).

An Engineer ,Who plans to build a building over a place covered with shanties, is worthier to his employer ,but what worth does he have in the minds of the slum dwellers? Similarly you do a good thing yesterday,you prove yourself and today you fail to do a thing.What worth do you have then,especially in your own eyes?

So my dear friends ,What I recognized is that, We should never undermine ourselves or consider that we are not worth it. Coz somewhere down the line you're gonna prove that you are more worthier than others,i.e. if you try. Rather go and prove this to people who have said so.So dont judge anyone,yourself or someone else form a thing or two. A person's worth is supposed to be proved everyday all through his/her life.

they say god decides every relationship and gives us the liberty to make our own relation called friendship .I feel this word friend can never bring out the specialty of the relation.
To me everybody in this world are travelers.some travel through life dancing to the rhythm of emotions for a long time and some just share their traveling experience. She is one such traveler who traveled with me dancing to the rhythm of laughter.
Knowing her for the past 2 years, I have learnt a lot from her.especially in the first and final sem .I learn t what it takes to be a good person .she is one among few ,who once changed the entire phase of my life.I wish I could travel back in time and change the bad deeds if I had done to her.there are many thing I wish I could have done to her.